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The highs and lows of a long distance relationship can leave you waiting in anticipation for the next phone call one minute, while seething in frustration the next when it doesn’t go as planned. Although many people might tell you that long distance relationships don’t work out, you know that the moment when you finally get to hold hands is just that much sweeter since it doesn’t happen all the time. It is important, however, to keep a realistic perspective since there are some common concerns that most couples encounter in long distance relationships. Being prepared for these issues to arise will help make your love go the distance.

Other People Just Don’t Get It

Your best friend keeps trying to set you up on double dates, or maybe your partner’s family keeps trying to convince him or her that they should find someone closer. Unfortunately, many people have a negative view of long distance relationships, or they may completely forget that you have a partner since they aren’t physically present. When your loved ones refuse to acknowledge your relationship, you may need to seek online dating advice from one of our experts to work through these common issues. To help others recognize your relationship as “real,” make sure to talk about your partner often and invite them to participate in your video chats. When you are able to be together, introduce them to your family and friends so that they can put a face to the name.

Keeping Physical Intimacy Alive

Talking to your partner on the phone may warm your soul, but going to bed alone just leaves you lonely. There are times when you need a human touch, but you can also find creative ways to keep that spark going. Cheating in relationships is more common when you live long distance, which makes it even more important to find ways to feel physically close. Try scheduling a video chat before bed and let the conversation turn intimate. Giving your partner something personal, such as a shirt or blanket, can allow them to snuggle with something that you have physically touched. When you are together, hold hands, kiss, and cuddle as much as you can so that you can enjoy the memories until you are together again.

Fear of Growing Apart

When you don’t see each other every day, it can feel as though you are slowly losing touch. For example, you may find yourself wondering who your partner’s friends are when they mention an unfamiliar name. Or you may suddenly realize that you do not know your partner’s favorite movie. At Cuppls, one of our favorite healthy relationship tips to keep your long distance relationship strong is to do things together. Technology has made it possible for you to play a video game together online or watch the same movie. Finding a common interest will ensure that you never feel like you are growing apart.

Difficulty Resolving Conflicts

One of the biggest problems couples encounter in long distance relationships is that minor issues often flare up into huge ordeals due to the difficulty involved with communication. For example, you might read an upsetting social media post but be unable to talk about it with your partner for hours. By then, you are already fuming. Alternatively, you may both decide to just stop talking for a few days until a conflict has blown over. Unfortunately, issues don’t go away unless they are resolved, which leaves at least one of you still dealing with hurt feelings. It is important to resolve even the most minor of issues as quickly as possible, and seek online couples therapy for bigger problems that cause both of you to struggle with finding a solution.

Whether you met your partner online or are forced to live apart due to school or work, it is important to remember that it is possible to make the relationship work. Every couple faces issues no matter where they live, and learning to work through your problems together will help you close the distance gap so that you can grow together as a couple.

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